Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Easter & Morphine


We had an Easter picnic on Sunday in my parents' room. This picture was taken after they opened their cards and ate some chocolate. My mom was in a lot of pain on Sunday, so she stayed in bed most of the day.

I saw her Monday evening and she was sitting up while the SeniorCorp social worker asked questions about what type of aide we need in the home. We will have someone coming, beginning on Thursday, from noon-7:00 p.m. to help with laundry, cleaning, meals and turning my mom. My dad is exhausted.

Thanks to the many people who are bringing food and showing their love to our family in this manner.

At 2:40 this morning (April 14th), we received a call from my dad that my mom had been screaming in pain for an hour. I immediately got up and was there in less than 20 minutes. She had calmed down by the time I arrived, but I gave her morphine drops anyway. She slept until the nurse arrived at 9:00 a.m. At that time, her temperature was 101 degrees. The nurse placed oxygen on her, gave her more morphine drops and a Vicodin to help with the pain and her temperature. They didn't have any Tylenol in the house. Thanks to Gene & Joan for bringing them groceries (including Tylenol) today. Her temperature was down to 99.7 when I left at 10:30 a.m. Her other nurse came and stayed with her for about 4-5 hours today. My mom was very agitated because they re-arranged her bedroom. Hopefully, she has calmed down. It had to be changed due to safety reasons.

Please pray that my mom does not continue to experience the severe pain. That's been my prayer all along - that she wouldn't have to endure pain.

Thanks.

Love,
Anita

2 comments:

Kari said...

Anita,

What a crossroads you are at. As one of four, I know that I will never have to face what you are facing as an only child. Thank GOD for John and your children. I am praying for a pain free transition for your mother. I know that you are living each day moment to moment....and are often times, I'm sure afraid to breathe. I will continue to pray for you and your family...I will specifically pray for the Lord to call her home, that she will greet her Lord with open arms, and that there will be great rejoicing for those left behind knowing she is dancing painfree with her Savior.

Scott said...

Thinking of you and praying for you all.

Adina